Eline
- 26 jun 2017
8 dingen die je je kind leert bij boosheid
Boos worden op je kind, mag dat nog wel? Waarschijnlijk heb je ergens gelezen dat schreeuwen tegen je temperamentvolle kind niet werkt. Of misschien heb je dat geleerd op een cursus. En dat is ook zo. Het werkt niet. Als jij gaat schreeuwen tegen je driftige kind, heeft dat totaal geen zin. Het werkt zelfs averechts. Je kind zal nog opstandiger, en bozer worden. Je kind is op dit moment overprikkeld en jouw boze geschreeuw voegt daar alleen nog maar onhanteerbare prikkels e
Eline
- 19 jun 2017
Pleidooi voor boosheid
Ik merk in mijn praktijk dat veel ouders bang zijn voor de boosheid van hun kind. Ze proberen het te voorkomen, te bagataliseren of te onderdrukken. En dat bedoelen ze goed. Ze willen zo graag dat de boosheid bij hun kind weg is. Ze willen zo graag dat hun kind blij is, tevreden en gelukkig. Ze willen zo graag dat het gezellig is. Of ze weten geen raad met de heftigheid waarmee een temperamentvol kind boos wordt en gaan over hun eigen grenzen om maar te voorkomen dat kindlief
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